We know that the Objective of life from Consciousness is for us to learn, to evolve from any situation but I realized that many times we find ourselves asking the right questions but it can be hard to find the answers because we have no previous experience although no reference so we don’t know what exactly could be the learning behind from Consciousness perspective. What we do in those cases is to ask ourselves later on- What was the learning in that experience? And this is correct, but here I want to give you the right answers to those questions.
I am going to give you a list of the Skills that we have to develop 100% to utilize them as Consciousness Tools in any situation. Consciousness tools:
VALUING, ACCEPTANCE, COMMITMENT, CALM, UNDERSTANDING, APPRECIATION, CHEERFULNESS, SERVICE, RESPECT, COMMUNICATION, RECOGNITION, ENTHUSIASM, KINDNESS, REFLECTION, INFORMATION, CONGRATULATION, AVAILABILITY, OWNING, ACTION, DIALOGUE, SUPPORT, TENDERNESS and GENTLENESS.
Observe yourself in that scenario and from complete honesty answer these questions:
In that specific situation, which of these tools I could improve substantially? Did I forget any of them?
Now you have this list for the next time that you find yourself in that situation with a certain level of insecurity because of the unknown. You can choose some of these tools to apply.