One of our greatest desires is at the same time one of our greatest fears, we fear the true Intimacy that supposes total trust in what apparently is another person but at the same time we fear the dissolution of our Being in the other, that is to say to lose our identity, the first is a longing for fusion that responds to what we are Unity-Consciousness and the second responds to the will and desire to continue experiencing us as a character which is necessary and essential to continue in this experience at the third dimension.
The evolutionary challenge in the Integration of Consciousness is to develop the capacity to continue building an pulling an identity as an instrument of our Soul, that still requires this process and to learn to create bonds of affection from Unity taking into account the Person in a continuous exercise of Integration of the parts of the Whole Being.
The first step for Conscious Communication is to validate the other person’s perception, even if we do not share it, that differentiates a very well integrated personality from one that still needs to defend or justify itself through Separation, it is a big difference.
What we do from the Integration Method is to always speak for us by knowing is all our perception or perspective and it does not have to be that of the other person. We fully pay attention to taking cares emotionally and not invalidating the perception of the other person, Take this out!
A subtle and very widespread way of invalidation is to drop or indirectly say that the perception of the other person is not correct or is just their imagination, when in fact we are all absolutely perceiving and every perception is valid and an illusion at the same time, there you can observe the level of emotional care and empathy, that a person has been able to develop. We will talk in another article about what is Discernment.
In any case, Just remember that we all do the best we know at all times. Big Love from me to you.